Change how you view Change

Lots of changes happen all around us and to us. How do we deal with the many changes that happen and how do we deal with transition. Do you ever wish things could stop changing and things can stay the same. Call me Captain Obvious - But it will never end. Change comes upon us suddenly or slowly - we can plan it or it can take control of us - we can create it but we can't stop it. So what is it about change that causes anxiety in people?

At this time of the year - do you notice whats happening around you everyday? People are planning. Companies are Planning. New Resolutions are being thought about. A new year represents a new start - a new beginning. And with that comes many choices - Choices that will change us or change our path.

What path are you looking at now? Is it a clear path? Is it a muddy path? Is it lit up? Or is it Dark? Are you making difficult decisions? Are you making a decision at all? Lots of ways to look at it.

The way I like to think about change is this. Its going to happen. I want to be in control where I can to give me some sense of security and certainty. But too much certainty is boring for me. So there is this element of not having a plan for everything - This adds the variety or uncertainty that makes life exciting. So its about balance. Make clear choices on whats most important to you and take into consideration how it impacts the people you care about. And Let those less important areas in your life come to you and be fluid Let it come to you. Let it happen and react in the moment. That is the juice of life.

The unknown - the surprise - the EDGE.

We all need to experience the edge often - it helps us grow. Don't live in fear. Don't hide. Life is too short - we are only here for a while. The Edge gives us life. It helps us live life. It helps us appreciate and expand our impact.

All the best - and I hope December brings great joy to you.

Like an old friend of mine said to me....

"We're not here for a long time ... We're here for a Good Time!!!"

All the best

Mike